Re: How to approach women Islamically?
Astaghfirullah comes after MashaAllah, then InshaAllah!
When she says Bismillah,
Say Alhamdulillah! (Allah Tera Shukar)
Five words conversation, that’s it… ‘date’ is successful!
Now one can call wali! 
BTW: It is very much appreciated and commendable that OP has changed his ways. Not many people do that. 