How to approach women Islamically?

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Re: How to approach women Islamically?

@Jaanwar

LOL @the responses.

Brotherman, just date. I don’t see whats so sinful about getting to know a prospective partner. If you are interested in a lady, take her out for lunch/dinner, have a conversation, find out if your interests and way of life/thinking match and if there is a chance then you ask her if you could send your parents over to see her parents. I don’t know if that is Shariah-compliant enough for you, but thats a fairly decent way to go about it as far as I can see.

I appreciate your advice, bro. But I’ve left all that dating stuff behind me. It’s not Shar’iah-compliant though, and I’m trying my best to follow in the footsteps of the only perfect creation of Allah (swt), the Prophet Muhammad (saw). While that would certainly make things easier, taking the easy way out is not always the best route

@Deeba1234

You ask around.. ‘Does anyone know this girl, she’s got black hair, 5"8, was wearing…’ Try and find out which uni she goes to or where she works so u can try and get her surname and work out who her family is.. You don’t have to stalk her right back to her parent’s house.. I was once in a similar situation but the guy got my name and address from my car number plate

LOL. Yeah, I don’t wanna hurt my own self-image by feeling like I stalked someone. Jazak’Allah your advice was excellent though, thanks sis.

@diwana

Walekum AS

There is nothing wrong in talking to girl yourself. Just be nice and do decent talk.
I do not think marriage is such a dirty word for girls. Nor they are so materialistic.

Just do not say what exactly you are going to do after marriage on first night.

You guys are crackin me up, lool. But I don’t believe marriage is a dirty word at all, I simply meant to imply that that’s the growing trend for the past several years. To be honest, I’ve never been afraid of commitment, even at a young age (not that I’m old, only 26 ) But it is difficult.

Jafri, bro you are hilarious. I might have to put some of those up on my Facebook status

The advice you’ve all given me, every one of you, was very helpful, jazak’Allah. I don’t necessarily have my eyes on any particular individual yet, but it has been on my mind a lot lately and this information will surely help.