Well we have such family members, and its easy said to just ignore them,
First we always used to stay polite, parents told us to do so, but people got worse and worse,
cz when you dont take actions, people think you are coward or something like that, :halo:
so now i do what i have to do to deal with them.
so kal ek member ne fone kiya(i wont say familymenmber cz they are not worth to be called that) , and i answered, and he hung up when hearing my voice. i misscalled back, so usne wapis fone kiya tau maine ek gali si di, called him **jerk. **and soon after a minute he called again and again i answered and said jerk again. it felt good 
And no, i dont think i did anything rude, eventhough he was cousin of my parents, cz ek hadh hoti hai, and those people have crossed that limit ages ago… 
stupid stupid stupid people… it is that i have to stay polite warna banned hojane ka darr hai,
lekin stupid is way too nice to describe them 