How to advise

[Mirch]

Re: How to advise

@Deeba1234

She has the mind of a 16yr-old? Maybe u should sit down with her and explain in as nice a way as possible the importance of her being able to stand on her own two feet.. if she’s mentally a bit slow she’s more at risk of being treated badly by future inlaws or husband or other family members and then where will she be if she has to rely on them for everything? Her dad’s attitude is worrying as well..

Why are you assuming that her family is so dumb that they will get her married to a family which will not take good care of her ? I am sure her dad who has taken care of her for so long will make sure that she is married in a family which will take good care of his daughter .

You are being judgmental of the father who has spent so many years to raise this girl , it is not easy to raise normal kids let alone kids with disabilities and challenges. He will be highly rewarded by Allah inshallah for all the sacrifices he had to make to raise this girl.