Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
Nomi, tum bohat samjdhar ho gaye ho.
Ashy I see what you are saying BUT I still feel that the girls should express her views about things that are important to her. All the compromise and flexibility is not just for the girl to do. This is not a business transaction therefore both parties should be open and make it clear what they want and how much they are willing or able to compromise.
Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
Rishta meeting and interview is same as all other interviews and meeting , you behave the way they would like you to and you give the answers they would like to hear. 
If you try to be yourself then you stand no chance. So play it safe kidos if you ever want to get married. 
Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
Nomi, tum bohat samjdhar ho gaye ho.
Ashy I see what you are saying BUT I still feel that the girls should express her views about things that are important to her. All the compromise and flexibility is not just for the girl to do. This is not a business transaction therefore both parties should be open and make it clear what they want and how much they are willing or able to compromise.
Totally agree..
On a different note I sometimes I wonder if the most crazy MILs have become that way due to years of pent up frustrations at always having to be the one to compromise and/or endure.. I would imagine always having to be the one who makes all the sacrifices like in the old days of desi husband + wife prob could mess your head up quite a bit..
Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
I have always been…kabhi gharoor nahi kia 
Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
when i was in such a situation i wasnot myself, i did put an act.
kyun? yr real self is scary OR u just wanted to scare them away? :D
Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
kyun? yr real self is scary OR u just wanted to scare them away? :D
lol haan dil tou yehi chaha raha tha.
real self banke maine azaab aur mushkilain dekh li hai is liye ab bas pretend hi karna hai.
Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
no wonder ppl freak out after marriage, "holy crap, i didnt not marry THIS guy/girl"
so it goes like ... im not gona tell her im gona do drugs...
10 years later
she finds ...
and freaks out...
bravo ppl putting up an act fails all theories of practicality, personality, and compatibility checks
Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
I agree with what most people are saying. Be true to yourself but also be careful. I mean, for example, I'm super sarcastic so I would try to tone that down since most people don't appreciate it if they first meet me. And if you choose not to curse and speak politely, that doesnt mean you are being fake, it's called being appropriate. so that type of thing. But if you truly believe that wearing sleeveless/capris is right/drinking isn't a problem then by no means hide that because it'll come back to bite you in the arse if you lie. But then again, I have yet to have my first meeting with a guy in this context, so what do I know, right?