Re: How to act in rishta meetings?
Telling about yourself is good but after you get to know about him because then you can decide how much you can accomodate his views. Otherwise why waste your and his time. Its very difficult to find the perfect compatibility so we should be prepared to compromise. I am not saying to fake our personality and character while talking to a guy but on issues like being a housewife or working wife, shifting to other country after marriage etc, its better to know what he thinks and if its very different from your thinking and plans, just stop everything there and then. If you are flexible enough to meet such requirements, do convey this clearly to him. For example, some guys would like their wives to be house wives and if I don’t mind leaving my job after marriage, it would be good to convey this to him but only after I get to know his preference for a house wife. Knowing his views first will enable me to identify the issues for which I am flexible and the issues on which I cannot compromise. Being yourself and being flexible are not mutually exclusive. We can be ourselves while being flexible and can adjust to any idea presented by the guy.
These are just my views and I think this way a girl can consider a guy on the basis of the differences in their views and opinions while allowing a little bit of flexibility.