some relations that are extremely critical to keeping marriages alive, to buiding strong bonds with extended family members.
how would you protect your sister/s or brother/s in law while being careful with your own family and your brother or sister, respectively, whose spouse happens to be in need of your help.
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If my SIL or BIL genuinely need my help then my brother or sister will also understand and will be supportive of me supporting their spouse. Unless I did not understand your question properly.
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I will help them just like I would help my own brothers/sister.
Getting along would depend on their personality.
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DUSHI i saved my BIL(brother In law) from my whole sasural not just sas nund n hubby n other 5 devers but whole daym khandan n he still is thank ful lto me my huby was boutta beat his life out of his body n my sas had a heart attack othr 5 devers ncludn my hubby all were beating the crap outta him... n i was the only one standn on his side n pushing n pulling every body off of him..... n then i was the one who saved him from the **** u got him self in... but now he doesnt really cares about all whti did for him n now he says wht others say too :)
so some rishta u try as hard but they nevr straightn out.... uske peeche n normalyy meri nund sas ke peche meri husband se meri lerai ho jati he u knwo hes a brother n he dosnt likes his sis havng bfa or friends who r boys n u know i just try to explain him things but he starts fighting with me instead.
some things r best if u leave them on their own n just look for ur family :) n sONLY ONLY ONLY do wht u hubby says is ryt... cuz its his family not urz n no matter how much u try today or tommorrow ur guna b the bad one :)
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& i would do anything to make my siblings' spouses feel protected and welcomed in the family, be there for them just like i would be for my own siblings and if they ever had a fight with my siblings, guide them both, amen.
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I would do the same, I think we should because even though you are not related to them by blood, they are your brothers and sisters in Islam. I already defend my brother's "fiance" from my khalas and chachis.
Jia the best thing to do is never to expect anything back. Do it for Allah and expect the reward from him. Humans are nothing.
some things r best if u leave them on their own n just look for ur family :) n sONLY ONLY ONLY do wht u hubby says is ryt... cuz its his family not urz n no matter how much u try today or tommorrow ur guna b the bad one :)
True:)
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if its financial help im sorry.
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If whatever they are doing (or not doing) is halal and they are happy or will be happy....then I'll be supportive of anyone that needs my support.....whether they are my in-laws or not.
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My in laws are amazing people alhamdullilah and I treat them like my own so anytime they need something I would obviously be there for them.