did you have your first fight/argue/have disagreements w. ur partner? Was it serious? and how long did it take to resolve?
Re: How soon after your wedding
oh come on sara. Who is going to tell you their darker side here, anyway.
We had this itsy bitsy displeasure shown from my side. I dont remember exactly but I think there was something I didnt like and I slammed the laptop and went to the kitchen and washed the dishes (I dont, otherwise) and it all made such noise my husband got an idea Im angry about something well he is always so good at handling my anger and narazgi never let it remain more than 5 minutes. So far :halo:
I think choti choti fights are alright (from wife’s side 
) tbut a husband has to have a patience of an angel for that. If someone’s husband is like an egoist and takes things so seriously and reacts even worse, a wife should never start things ever or she will have to regret at the end of the day.
Re: How soon after your wedding
Someone asked Hazrat Ali (r.a) about marriage. He replied: Aik mahiney ka pyaar aur phir jhagrey hi jhagrey. (One month of love and then fights). This coming from a man who was the best husband and had the best wife, then who are we ?!
Different "humans" having different gender, background, brought up and way of thinking would always have arguments, disagreements and misunderstandings. The important thing is the way we handle it, maintain and express our love, humblness, respect and sincerity through our words and actions.
Re: How soon after your wedding
Someone asked Hazrat Ali (r.a) about marriage. He replied: Aik mahiney ka pyaar aur phir jhagrey hi jhagrey. (One month of love and then fights). This coming from a man who was the best husband and had the best wife, then who are we ?!
Well nowadays people are not fortunate enough to get even 1 month ka pyar :p lols funny but sad at the same time.
Re: How soon after your wedding
^ well there could be 101 factors behind it. They need to be redressed instead of complaining against and finding faults in the institution of shadi.
Re: How soon after your wedding
I think after 5 months or so, maybe minor tiffs before that but I don't remember now. It was over a pretty stupid thing, got serious but resolved in a day. We have a rule of not going to sleep angry at each other and so far it has been broken only twice, not bad, eh? : D
Re: How soon after your wedding
thats cute ^ lol.
Re: How soon after your wedding
I think after 5 months or so, maybe minor tiffs before that but I don't remember now. It was over a pretty stupid thing, got serious but resolved in a day. We have a rule of not going to sleep angry at each other and so far it has been broken only twice, not bad, eh? : D
Ditto :D
Re: How soon after your wedding
after a month.....i had few problems with my saas, i told him, he talked to his mom when i told him not to say anything to anyone. i cried a lot that night.
he sort of broke my trust but he promised and never said anything to his parents after that.
Re: How soon after your wedding
I think after a week or so, he kinda shouted at me when we were gettin late for dawat at our relatives. It was very shocking for me I stayed quiet as I knew it was my mistake I shud of get ready earlier and not wasted my time chatting with my cousins on phone.But then on the way he apologised and resolved our fight.
Re: How soon after your wedding
VERY heee deceiving title of the thread 
Re: How soon after your wedding
LOL , from the title ,I also though that it might be some mirch masala thread, magar meray armanoon pay oos per ga-e.
Re: How soon after your wedding
After 1 week,and it was from his side,I completely ignored it,as it was an arrange marriage so I didn't have any LOvely dovely pyar mohabat ki expactaion like a love marriage.so I though It was ok.
Re: How soon after your wedding
The next day.
Wedding day...after the wedding we get to our hotel at 3am and get a call at 5am because there is some sort of an emergency. His mother and sister needed a nail cutter for his sister's kid...she forgot her nail cutter at home. So he went and got them a nail cutter at 5am.
Re: How soon after your wedding
u r joking ...right?
The next day.
Wedding day...after the wedding we get to our hotel at 3am and get a call at 5am because there is some sort of an emergency. His mother and sister needed a nail cutter for his sister's kid...she forgot her nail cutter at home. So he went and got them a nail cutter at 5am.
Re: How soon after your wedding
u r joking ...right?
True story...I was too surprised to say much.
Re: How soon after your wedding
I was upset the next day because he made me do some serious house work cleaning at all the very next day I did not fight but I was upset
Re: How soon after your wedding
did you have your first fight/argue/have disagreements w. ur partner? Was it serious? and how long did it take to resolve?
7th day, at 12:43pm. Serious. Took 28 mins and 56 secs to resolve. :@:
Re: How soon after your wedding
first year of marriage is like a baby with teething problems. if u make it through, its smooth sailing after that.
Re: How soon after your wedding
what an idiot he was!