My saas has warned me not to share the stuff she says to me to my husband she says aurton kii baaton say mardon ko parayshan nahin karna chahiye and to be honest i really dont have the energy for arguments and insults from her.
My huby is so busy that i had to come 2 germany for the treatment of my daughter!! No time for us, he hasnt even taken his kids to a park yet. It is me who does all this, buys toys, clothes (but with his money or our money is better). He does love us but i miss so many things that other normal families do. He even works on sundays (chalo majboori hai but still). He shuld have taken time to vaccinate me/ take his daughter for regualr checkups.
I would really like to become independant and do all this stuff in pakistan also but my saas even asks me to “talk behind the gate” with people who ring the bell. Its difficult