yeah i do have many issues and who doesn’t have issues..its just that i am all alone and i don’t have anyone to discuss those issues here so i just found this forum to vent..is there something wrong with that? like there are many people here who told me to discuss my issues here as i will feel better..and i do get some really good advice from people on this forum..
its been a year almost…
CA it’s only been a year take it easyee u need to b patience with him. Your stillp getting to know it other .
I don’t understand y wives have issues when it comes to their hubbies spend time o money on their families. This shouldn’t b a issue as long as he is also providing for you it doesn’t matter.
As for asking him for things when he takes out his mum n sister n u go to pick up something n he turns round n say y do u need that, r u jus impluse buying jus so he buys for u too in front of your in laws.
And if u really need the items and he turns and say NO I’m not buying it, then buy it yourself. do u really need him to buy everything.
Yes I know everyone has issues I’ve had my fair share over the last 9ish years of marriage I still do, but there some issues I can use common sense and try to deal with myself.
The best thing you can do is give him some space n be patience with him, even if your fault when u argue jus say SORRY, and get on with the rest of the day. Don’t drag argurments out. 2ndly in front of your in laws don’t show issues that ur annoyed with him about buying things etc, they will always c that it wrong.
Lastly u’ve only been married a year it will take time for u to get to know what u like how u behave etc etc. Every day isn’t a honeymoon but if u want to stay happy u need to learn to b patience n act like the grown up one in marriage!
When u say your alone and have no one here where r u I mean which country etc???