Re: how should i behave…
Well and I believe this is something that was very much prevalent in the previous generation where it was considered odd for the couple to behave the way today’s couples do normally. Our mothers did spend their lives with sacrifice, generosity, patience and tolerance. And these habits are rewarding, no doubt.
Always being the one who’s expected to sacrifice often makes people resentful in the end tho and to be honest I see a LOT of women of past generations who come across as quite bitter and seem to take out their frustrations now they have become MILs themselves on their own DILs..
It is not highly accepted in our culture for the husband to show affection to his wife infront of his family or anyone else for that matter.** So don’t sweat if you doesn’t call you “jaan” or other endearing words infront of his family…however he should not be RUDE. There’s a difference between being neutral and being rude". The key to solving any conflict is communication. Talk to him, tell him how you feel…**tell him you want to feel a little more loved, and cared for even around his family. If he loves you and cares for you as you say, he’ll listen.
Totally agree..