How should i approach some one who has been living in my Neighborhood for the last 5 years.I am dumb in these kind of matters(in case you are wondering,i haven’t approached any one ever before.I was too engrossed in my field to have time for this).I am looking forward to get married in the coming 2-3 years.So yeah,i am trying to seek a spouse and i want to make sure that i have a mental compatibility with potential khatoon before making a decision.
Now i hope to make things as crystal clear as they can get for you guys.
She is same age as me.(i.e 24)
We see each other often.Usually i get to see her when i am parking the car in my garage and she is going out with her family.This usually happens when i am coming back from my office.She seems like a party gal and likes to hang out a lot with her friends and family.
I am really on good terms with her family members.Her Uncle,aunt,mother,her male cousins in U.S etc.
She is on Facebook.I have seen her profile.I haven’t added her nor haven’t sent any messages to her yet.
I don’t want to involve my family members yet.I want to know her first before making a family move and i want to make a move fast ! What if she gets engaged to some one else in this time ?
I need advice from ladies lol.No jokes people this time around !
How about you start saying hi whenever you see her, ask her how's she's doing..
then after a couple of days, just start a convasation.. about the weather or whatever
i'm guessing by "party girl" you meant a social girl.. so when you just start talking to her, it should be easy!
How about you start saying hi whenever you see her, ask her how's she's doing..
then after a couple of days, just start a convasation.. about the weather or whatever
i'm guessing by "party girl" you meant a social girl.. so when you just start talking to her, it should be easy!
best of luck!
only serial killers say "hi, how are you doing" to chicks in garage.
Don't get the guy in trouble.
to answer your question "How should i approach her?", the answer is a very definite, unequivocal "from the back" so she doesn't see you coming.
Have the chloroform soaked towel in your hand before you walk up to her, stick the towel in her face and say in a friendly tone, to break the ice, "Does this smell like chloroform?"
You could get a van and ask her to help you move a couch, make her get in first. Make sure to ask her in a creepy voice "What are you, a size 12-13?"
Buy her a gift, a basket full of moisturizers and creams and then say "It puts the lotion on its skin"
to answer your question "How should i approach her?", the answer is a very definite, unequivocal "from the back" so she doesn't see you coming.
Have the chloroform soaked towel in your hand before you walk up to her, stick the towel in her face and say in a friendly tone, to break the ice, "Does this smell like chloroform?"
You could get a van and ask her to help you move a couch, make her get in first. Make sure to ask her in a creepy voice "What are you, a size 12-13?"
Buy her a gift, a basket full of moisturizers and creams and then say "It puts the lotion on its skin"
How close are you to her cousins etc? If you have a good rapport with them, then ask if it would be appropriate to approach her.
Or
You can just take the direct approach and ask her yourself (since you don't want your family involved). The worst that can happen is she will say no, and it's not the end of the world or anything.
