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^^ Nah you're not.
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grow up lady ....
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This is why I think that couples should refrain from gift exchange during engagement time. Do all the gift giving when you are legally married and living together.
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hey all I am confused about something I planned to send my long distanc husband/fiance a care package as a gift which contain bountys chocolate, pringles chips, aik aur chocolate thi bites size ki I forgot its name ,lays , chewinggums , n a shirt n perfume, smiley face squeezeable balls for color effect n decorated the box n aik card tha He msged Tht I love the gift when he got it Baad mein b on n off he mentioned eating chocolates etc etc I once ask as he didn't mention perfume Tht hope u like the cologne I pick the safest pick from my choice cologne tu he didn't reply koi aur baat ho gae Shirt ka he said it fits properly bas not Tht he liked it or not Aj subha we were talkin tu he said from where u got those small chocolates? I asked y Wht happen He said in how much u got it in a joking way I said y tu he said have u ever tried them I said yar my bro suggested Tht i have tried them they r good but when i openef the pack he said its not the one I tried Tu he was laughing n said Han koi aur khai hun gi us ny I don't think he should have said it atleast I sent bounty which r his favv n i tried To do something nice for him Phir I got upset n sham mein I msged Yaar u r right I just tasted the chocolate its not good I planned big but got busy n last days mein when ur mom was leaving I was in hospital with mama incomplete tha Sab I even drop the plan to send it but mama papa said its lovely just pack it n bhej do now I know they were just being nice. cologne n shirt was rubbish, chocolates tasted super bad, ... There is nothing left in the box so basically u didn't like anything :/ mb cuz i know its better to get nothing than a bad gift N he reply back ?????? Your the weirdest person ever Clogne I love, Like absolutely Shirt fits me perfectly and every1 says it looks perfect Chewing and bounty I gave to no one The small chocolate, lol my nephew loves it Ajeeb ho Bus tareef chahye thi Best gift ever compared to the others I replied Nae, tareef nae chahye thi I just excused, as a gentle gesture cuz I thought it was trashy that's all. I'm nt weird , neither I fish for compliments from u guys He replied Lol pehley dhey di thi From you guys Lol Kya ho gaya hai It's not, I told you before. It was good Bas I haven't reply afterwards planing to just not repeat this topic This is what he sent next mornin Why'd you message me the weirdest msg ever I just spoke abt the chocolates tasting different. I just wanted your opinion. Lol you started talking abt the shirt and cologne Lol read your msg I sent ? He I was talking abt your comment I loved the gift Ajeeb ho Me Yea I was just talkin abt how I feel bad for u i guess in a nice way He Khair Shab khair Nooo Thats not good Me Khair let's just drop it here He Your assuming Haan Mein paghal jangli Toh nahi hu Gift ke baare kuch bura kahun Lol khair, Shab khair Read Amanda berrys story Kafi sad hai Me Nvm It's not called assuming Arite Shabkhair Oh these r the women who got rescued last year right Amazing women
now I want to ask is it normal? isnt he being rude? I mean he always on every problem I mention says I assume stuff , or I m sensitive or distance when he said best gift compared to others does it mean compared to my other gifts or other gifts he got ? did I overreact? or said something inappropriate?
Huh?
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There's a lot more to life than these things.
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i think he didnt like the gifts much but he praised afterwards to make u happy. but its normal, sumtimes we like the gifts and sumtimes we dont... it is such a small issue.. u should ignore it n stay happy wid ur hubby :)
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i don't understand what is wrong in your message. it looks like you're over-trivializing the non-existent issue
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Warning sign for the guy. Women are capable of creating issue out of nothing.
Run bro run
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lol thanks everyone
to b honest Its an eye opener kind of views because I have been hearing different opinion from the closest friends like
1. u should talk to him, open up n tell him he did wrong
2. he is a guy he should b more nice and loving etc etc
but now I know what I need to do become bit more mature, and stop over thinking
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lol thanks everyone to b honest Its an eye opener kind of views because I have been hearing different opinion from the closest friends like 1. u should talk to him, open up n tell him he did wrong 2. he is a guy he should b more nice and loving etc etc but now I know what I need to do become bit more mature, and stop over thinking
^ Exactly!
No one is saying that he shouldn't be more loving or that you two shouldn't be more open in your communication, but before the rest happens, you need to approach the relationship with maturity and try and understand his point of view. That in fact will allow you get him to understand your point of view better.
Good luck!