How "Selfish" are you?

I have came to realize that people are very selfish… Encounters with such people leave us feeling hurtful and used to a great extent… Moreover, if one is a sensitive person with a soft heart, then such associations might give them hard-to-forget and distressing experiences.

All selfish people display a very uncaring attitude and a strong “Me first” trait. They want to receive more than return it back or give… What are your thoughts on selfishness? How selfish are you?

I do think it is needed to be selfish at times else it leads to people taking advantage of your selfless behavior.

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We are all selfish to an extent; I don't think anyone can give you scale rating for this.

Seems like you're thinking about a painful past experience. It's not something you will ever forget but with time you will move on from it. If things are much better now, focus on that.

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I am very selfish. If I forget I am selfish then I cannot try to be selfless.

It is a problem when the selfish ones do not realize that they are selfish.

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Selfish here...absolutely.

My quality of life comes first and foremost for me.

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Don't care too much for fish.

Harden up.
No one will do it for you.

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Everyone's selfish.

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Pfft I am as selfless as they come.

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“Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live." - Oscar Wilde
Yup.....Guilty as charged.

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Selfishness is putting yourself above everyone :) .. I LIKE IT!

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Pills could work :smokin:

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family and friends say i'm a very selfless person :) but, they haven't seen my 'dark' side! :D

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My family thinks that I am seedhi... What does that supposed to mean ???

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it means they think you are simple.

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seedhi jo apni ungli waqt paRne par TeRhii bhii kar saktii hai! [ghee nikaalne ke liye :cb:]

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Actually I think yeh mein ab seekh chuki apnay life k experience se. Maybe, phelay zayda seedhi thi ab ungli taray kerna bhi ata hai :slight_smile:

Never give anybody too much that you can’t afford to get up and live a stable life!!!