how often

does it happen in pakistani - muslim families, that a boy’s/man’s Mother or Father asks, the potential daughter in law, ‘what are your requirements for a husband’?

share if you would like if this is what your fair Mother and Father in law asked you when your family was exploring for a son in law, as a prospective spouse for you?

Re: how often

Yep thats generally how it seems to be going nowadays. It's quite unnerving but a great opportunity, alhamdulillah.

Re: how often

Once in a blue moon i guess.