Just a thought that came to mind.. how often do you argue with your other half? And how do you stop small silly arguments getting out of hand?
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never! because i don't have the 'other -half' ... ain't i the lucky one!
no kichkich, no nagging...so peaceful!!! :)
Lol maybe I should have specified this a little more towards the married couples
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With my ex girlfriend..we did argue quiet a bit..haha!. Often..on silly stuff. And then we used to make up next hour or so or within a day and laugh it off. So os ke ba'ad..koy larki patta ke hee bataonga..
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how you make up xtron? any rituals?
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Take her out to dinner and get her something nice...
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Well I can comment on my parents. They don't argue much, mainly because my mother is on the submissive side. She is a very selfless person and would go though leaps and bounds to do things for my father.
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Arguments start when you start disagreeing.
There are some specific topics… which I know, we two argument a lot about… 
other than that..we dont… So yes, I try to avoid to discuss them… but if accidently, unfortunately, or fortunately.. start hojayen… to bas phir dono hi aik doosray ka dimagh khatay rehte hain However, if I sense a fight.. I leave it.
P.S. I am not talking about the “Gharelu” topics 
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Shaadi tou krne do pehle ;)
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Once a day. It's a ritual/
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Few and far between.
We try to be considerate to each other and live as much like Vulcans as we can, but humanity does take over from time to time.
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What's the difference between a fight and an argument?
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What's the difference between a fight and an argument?
A fight can possibly have an injury to one or both parties. While an argument cannot.
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What's the difference between a fight and an argument?
when you beat your opponent with words, it's argument...and, when you ebat someone with belan/sticks/stones and what not, it's definitely fighting! :D
remember: sticks N stones don't break the bones but words do! :)
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I meant in a love relationship:smack:. Plus what are the rules so it doesn’t get ugly? Like if your husband is acting cowardly and not standing up for you would you say it to him directly or would you just adjust to it so there are no arguments.
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One rule is, consider which would cause more damage in the longer run, keeping quiet or replying back.
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I don't have a husband yet but some men just have booming, loud, aggressive voices and bodies that I just wimp out or there's no way to constructively argue so there are any positive outcomes in saying anything at all because he's not listening and just screaming at that point i'm just wondering what the rules are so I don't hurt him but somehow get a man to see that he needs to change his thinking or not be such a coward without the actual hurtful words being said that would sting him.
I am not an argumentative person. I'd rather keep the peace and still telepathically make a change in the other person, or adjust but it's hard to adjust to certain strong aggressive personalities.
I don't understand people in general I guess.
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GG, I would consider it as a fight and not argument. Fight for the right. Argument remains an argument as long as it is healthy, once ego jumps in it, it becomes more of a fight. So… yes, thats what I said, when I sense ego/ fight/ unnecessary sarcasm… then it doesn’t remain an argument anymore and I giveup at the moment, not because I can’t handle it anymore, but only because I wouldn’t want to show my husband that I want to prove him wrong.
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GG, I would consider it as a fight and not argument. Fight for the right. Argument remains an argument as long as it is healthy, once ego jumps in it, it becomes more of a fight. So.... yes, thats what I said, when I sense ego/ fight/ unnecessary sarcasm... then it doesn't remain an argument anymore and I giveup at the moment, not because I can't handle it anymore, but only because I wouldn't want to show my husband that I want to prove him wrong.
Pick and choose your battles, yes, if we want to keep the peace but you would leave certain worrisome issues unresolved since they always creep up again? The next time they might cause a full fledged fight if the other person is in a really bad mood(which you don't sense til it's too late).
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I mentioned earlier. My arguments are not over Gharelu saas Bahu issues. Its more about outside the Circle. Its more about Current Affairs, Science, History and all that stuff.
Our arguments at least make us learn, what we two disagree about… so the other time, if the topic pops up again, whether I try to avoid or sometimes he… because we know… if we drag it in detail, it can lead to a fight.. and both of us… larai se door bhaagtay hain 