How much space & time should you give someone close to you, may it be your friend,spouse,fiance,etc, when things go wrong between you,and giving space & time to calm the matter is the only option?I wonder how long after should you contact them after giving space & time?
Re: How much space & time should you give someone?
It depends on what the issue was.
suppose a person who is very close to you asked for a $5000 loan and you, for a very good reason, declined and he/she sits **"muNh phulaa ke"***...now, what would you do? *
Re: How much space & time should you give someone?
hmm i know it may sound weird to some, but personally i don't really believe in the whole wanting space thing.
Like true okay you may need SOME time off, but everytime I've had a glitch where I've said I need space/time, it's like a day max for me haha.. I fail at it big time.
I find, I tend to over analyse stuff a lot, so the more 'space/time' I have instead of sorting them out in my head and find a resolution it would turn into something x 10 bigger than what it was.
So for me, space dosen't work.. just limited contact for a day or so and yeah slowly things go okay for me..