I am against jahiz. So much that I told my parents that I won't take a thing even when they wanted to give me. Hubs and I will build our house step by step. That's how it should be. My in laws said the same thing, there is no room for your stuff at his place but I never in all this time of my shaadi heard a single thing about jahiz. I did take my clothes only. I had a lot, like 8-9 suitcases of clothes. Not all newly made though. Things I've been using too. If you really want to buy something, and your in laws don't already have it, I suggest by small appliances.. like blenders, food processers, juicer. Maybe a dinner set. Don't buy fridge please. Small t hings are okay to take becaue to be honest, you'll need those but big things should be bought by your husband. If they really have an space issue, well good for you. Don't take anything, just your own clothes, makeup etc. i heard the space issue and I can tell you, my stuff after all t his time is still sitting outside because there really isn't any space to put it :(