It might not be common but what if your husband is very much demanding for intimacy and intercourse at odd times, repeatidly.
I saw a dirty scene in My name is Khan, where SRK asks kajol to come to room when she is cooking dinner. and she happily goes.
Some time back I was reading a dirty story (erotica ) where a wife with a toddler feel a lot of burden of managing ‘so much work’ and asks her friend for “help” !
Would you be happy with routine disruption in you laundry work , fav tv show or cooking etc ? please be honest
It's subjective. But I guess it would be "too much" if nobody is being fed and there are no clean clothes to wear....and work isn't getting done....just overall disorganization that eventually puts a strain on the relationship and will then hinder intimacy.