How much is too much?

[diwana]

Re: How much is too much?

@diamond321

There are so many inlaws who do this and I am surprised that people feel that it’s uncommon.

The worse is when inlaws instead of asking play spiteful games to get a control on your money. You know one is asking and one is thagna and some people thug their own wife / DIL. It is a very very difficult and sad situation for any person to be in.

So you think it is not uncommon? In other words…it is common?

My point was that good and bad are everywhere and the combination of three scenarios (seeing paycheck, monitoring saving and giving allowances) is not only uncommon but actually rare. Just think of probability factor by using a little math.

There was a time in old days when SOME men use to put money on the hand of their mother, but the talk about paycheck, saving relates to relatively modern time. These relate to either banking or mail and accessing these would not be so easy for anyone and can be controlled.

Besides, all three combined… would still be very rare. That’s all.

**We live in reality world, not some made up scenarios. **

P.S. Your post # 3 did make sense.