Hypothetical question turned into a real question?
well, in such case, you just tell them the truth and let them give you all advices they would like. As long as you and your husband are on the same page, you shouldn’t be bothered because such is life you will hear a lot of people saying bad about you. At the end of the day, it’s your life and whatever you get has your husband’s agreement in it. Should not be anybody’s problem.