Re: How much do 'looks' matter?
the most confident guys r often the liars too
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^that's true ! They think they can get away with murder :(
Re: How much do 'looks' matter?
its my personal experiance u may b agree or may b not agree with it
some years ago i always go for looks.i always prefered look on anythng .
but later i found looks are not everything its still important.but it not the only thing.i m not saying u go for ugly ones but u can go with an average looks.....
if u see a guy or girl who si rude blunt proud undecnt etc etc and u look a guy or girl who is average looking but more nice,has more manner talk good u will defeinetely attarct to them intead of blunt beautifulss..
bad qualities always made beauty uglier .
u wll definately want a guy who respect u love u care u and if he is handsome its a plus point but its not then its ok.
good qualities over come his her avrage looks..u more upto thse qualities then looks.
u wil definaelt not attracted to a hubby who is tom cruse but have no love care ettiquites
if a guy,girl,hubby,wife....has all traits to b good person but they are averange looking
still he she will b a most beautiful person on earth thats what i leart from life.
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very good post suhaina
yes, this is the ideal way both sexes should selct partnr..
But we guys still want good-looking wife....
Re: How much do 'looks' matter?
I've seen some pretty nasty stuff said against not so good looking guys/gals (yeah....don't get the idea I ain't good looking, mA am quite good looking), but the thing is that I don't like the attitude some people here are showing especially saying that ugly people don't deserve pretty spouses. Quite frankly, that is a pretty retarded logic on the face of it. Beauty is NOT an accomplishment, so being ugly or beautiful should not be taken as such.
Everyone has the right to like beautiful people (hello!!! hunchback of notredame ??), its not a sin and they are entitled to that. A guy maybe ugly, but decent, caring, humurous and financially well-off. Trust me, lots of "mod scod" gals bashing ugliness would hate the same handsome face if the guy turns out to be a jerk.
I however also don't believe in the theory that every ugly guy is great inside and vice versa. My point is that looks are a variable in the equation of the acceptability but NOT the only variable. If it is for you, then God help you.
Another word of caution for gals trying to hunt John Abrahams, if he's way too good looking, what makes you sure you'd be the only girl he's stick to ? and won't try desserts once in a while as I have seen many of the very good looking guys make really good use of this.
very good post suhaina
yes, this is the ideal way both sexes should selct partnr..
But we guys still want good-looking wife....
thanx amir
waisay muhje yaqeen nahi araha u r praising my post?
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okay... so, those who want an average looking guy, raise your hands.
snowy_winter
Its not that ugly guys shud never go for good-girls.
Its the widespread of this phenomenon, that pisse u off. I mean av guys to preety girl is ok. Nobody super good.
But many a time, espcialy pakistani bred couples. Where guy is absolutly useless, fat, black, muchar, old and he aint even that well off or personality topper.
But he HAS TO INSPITE all hes short-comings have to have the most beautiful gori chiti wife!
It is unfair, and rightly it does makes other guys like me who are not that selfish like them be jealous.
And even desi guys here whor butters with the buffest girls not al of them are personality toppers or financial secure atractters.
Not all-good-looking guys are players and cheaters, the same way not all ave. or nasty guys r loyal.
Its just that when one good-looking guys dumps a girl they all get stereotyped.
I know a lot of ave/nasty looking gusy who are dam-right perverteds promiscious losers.
Its just that because they look so 'innocent' and unappealing, it looks to girls they wont be esily able to get girls or go for any. And just because the good-lookin guys look so attractive, able and appealing it percives to u that they will be easily able to get the girls and be getting it.
And what makes it more worse that very often you girls say ewww. or ehhhh or giigle 'batters' and diss with ur mates to random less-good-looking guys.
But then your husbnds very often end up being the exact or even worse than that thing.
WHY THE HYPOCRISY THEN!
You advocate sympathy/emptahy for the **** guys, to be considered, then why do you diss them otherwise.
Answer this.
What should a man do. Sy if some guy is goo-looking should he try to lower himself to be less appealing-since u galz go for ave ones, or should he keep up and maintain his good looks to avoid being laughed at.
??? stupid gals
Suhaina, you posted somthing which was indeed inteligent and mature.
It was worth the compliment.
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Honey, I'd recommend you to read my last post carefully. In the first line I mentioned I said guys/gals and yes, the same logic holds for girls as well. Personally, I'd much rather prefer a slightly attractive gal than a very beautiful one for the reasons posted above. But once again, I don't see the whole philosophy of seeing and judgine people as beautiful or ugly, that seems like a pretty shallow way of judgine people. Its like we have a scale of beauty and assign people labels on that and then thats they are worth.
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thnx amir
^ouch! someone once said ugly couples make beautiful babies...:D
oh yeah, CROSSING two negatives makes a positive. mathematically:
(-) x (-)= + :)
Ofcourse matters...I mean when you get married to someone it means you will be associated with him forever.Then comes your family members,sis ,cousins...It makes u feel so good when you get a cute ,humble,etc betterhalf.
Then age really matters,usually guy n gal of the same age are really good with each other.Their thoughts,opinions,interests are all same.
Its not like a girl wants to see a flick n the boring spouse wants to stay home.U know.