is too much dating?
I mean in the broader context, not just a dinner.
Lets put our judgements aside.
But,
Like Im reading here that girls are interacting with many guyz at a time as their potential, and guyz into many potential girls at the same time. Is there something like a limit to one "should" be dealing with at one stage?
you can have as many as you like
Depends on how many men you can handle. Don’t give into peer pressure.
Wouldnt ‘One at a time’ be easy and better (morally)?
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Wouldnt ‘One at a time’ be easy and better (morally)?
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You’re your own master, do what you want.
You can argue both sides of it. Some would say “save your time, date until you know you want to commit” and others would tell you to date one at a time.
I judged the situation according to my interest in the person in question and their apparent interest in me before deciding if I wanted to date more than one person at the same time. I am personally not made to date more than one person at a time, so I avoided it as much as possible. So, it comes down to what works for you and what you can stand behind.
I suppose if your entire being becomes dating and finding “the one” and it interferes with other parts of your day-to-day life then that is definitely too much dating.
Don’t fcuk the whole neighborhood.
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You can argue both sides of it. Some would say “save your time, date until you know you want to commit” and others would tell you to date one at a time.
I judged the situation according to my interest in the person in question and their apparent interest in me before deciding if I wanted to date more than one person at the same time. I am personally not made to date more than one person at a time, so I avoided it as much as possible. So, it comes down to what works for you and what you can stand behind.
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I’m the same as you sista. One at a time giving the person full attention. No clue how people multitask with multiple people. To me it just seems unfair with them.
Why not? Oh yes, leave that privilege to the mohalla manwhores
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Why not? Oh yes, leave that privilege to the mohalla manwhores
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You can enjoy the privilege too, but as you said, comes with the label of whore.
Yes, there are blog entries of certain members who have shared that they are dating (or getting to know) people for marriage purposes…either one at a time …or a few at a time. Those members are not sleeping around with the potentials. At least that’s the impression I have gathered from from their posts and blogs. With that said, it’s quite a stretch for any of us to be equating it to “fcuking” or “whoring.”
Personally, I have a one-track mind and have never felt comfortable considering more than one person at a time. I can, however, understand that if you get attached to even that one person…you may end up wasting time if things don’t work out…and then you also have to factor in time to emotionally move on from them. I dunno…matters of the heart are complicated. Good for the ones who are putting themselves out there and trying to find a match for them…which I should do as well…but am not.
Apply cold water to the burn area LOL
Lift your tail, and I will pour deep inside your bum.
Lmao itni jalan???
It just took a one-liner for you to show your inner core?
Dating is always enjoying. I even love to date with the girls. Whenever, I am free and don’t have much work I date with my GF.
It depends how much you can handle and how you are treating those who you are dating with. Of course, if you are making such big decision of life like marriage, why can’t you see more than one option? But there will be always one you will like more than others, so is that really honest towards those who you don’t fancy that much? Besides, you can’t get to know a person just from couple of dates. You can detect patterns of their behaviour and how it matches with yours and how it can play out in long term. Getting to know someone asks years and that’s the beauty of relationship and marriage partly. If a person has problems with decision making, multiple dating partners can create problems, like, for example, I was reading in this forum. Someone dates one person, gets emotionally attached and while haven’t moved on yet, starts dating another and wanting to be honest tells about their feelings and you don’t have to wait for problems to come too long.
“Emotional intimacy is more potent than physical intimacy and we need to be honest with ourselves. baring your heart and soul to a stranger is more intimate than the body.”
Rarely do I concur with you, Bob. But I do agree with your above point. The physical will diminish over time and looks, too, will fade.
This totally depends upto you. You can date with many girls as you like. Thank you!