How Much Could We(The Couple) be affected ?

Thank you so much to all those Members who gave such in depth view of my case, and pointed about some other available options like

  1. Online Courses

  2. Searching for Scholorships where I can Have family with me

  3. Part-time courses

and Second view I would highlight is , that I could hunt for Better Employer where My work would mater more than my Credentials.

In view of the recommendations , I should only go for Studies where I would be close to my family(wife and baby).

But Big No for the Option
"Leave family for two years and go for Career boost"

Re: How Much Could We(The Couple) be affected ?

Lala you will get 50 different opinions from 50 different people. What matters is your understanding with your wife on this matter, how you want to handle things, what is the best option based on its own merits and demerits. You are a man, you need to decide on what is best for your family in the long run. Sometimes you have to swallow a bitter pill for long term stability - financial and otherwise. Evaluate the options available, discuss them with your wife, decide on something mutually agreeable and beneficial.

you are right regarding "understanding with my wife" , but I fear she may not go for my openion due to her submissive approach, so I should have unbiased view regarding this, which ultimately brings me to listen more people and consider more openions.

Although it takes one some time towards more confusion and puzzle.

Ya, that is always recommended to go for option on the basis of "Long-run family interests" even though it is like to swallow a bitter pill.

Re: How Much Could We(The Couple) be affected ?

which country are you going for further studies?

cuz i know if you coming to canada then they do have grants for masters, and they do help you to support your family.
ps. if canada, its better to talk to LC on this issue.

About COuntry I have not finalized yet, but instead preparing for Tests etc
Canada could also come in my options, and may Prefer in case I can come with my family.

Thanks Zobia

OK i definitely recommend the US or Canada.

I know many Master's students in engineering in my university, and some have families. They live a difficult life, their wives can't drive and the public transport is not good here so i see their wives often walking around with their kids in their strollers. But at least they are together.

Your wife will have an F2 visa so she can't help you with work. However you will be permitted to work 20 hours a week on campus. In Canada the main disadvantage is that it's really cold, so one gets stuck in the house for most of the year. This can be really depressing when you're in a new country. Places like Texas and California are nice as they have a lot of Pakistani people who can serve as a good support system. Academic system at graduate level is same in Canada/US; i dont know about financial issues.

Go ahead and apply and see what happens first. Who knows what will happen...after you receive a letter, you can decide.

Good to hear your view, which strenthens the common view on this thread toward my issue.
My efforts are in Pipeline, hope manage soon.

Re: How Much Could We(The Couple) be affected ?

Only you and your partner know what is best for you in the long term. Talk to your wife. Only she can give you the best answer. After all, we won't be the ones going through it, but you and your wife will.