I am near to the Decision to "quit my Job and go for MS studies". I am wining bread for my family from this Job, quiting to it would mean that I would be no longer able to afford her and little baby with me abroad.
The job is good , however could be optimised more If I go for Higher Studies(Ms/M.phil) and this I can do now better because of studies gap and age.
We are married since last one and half year , were al Humdu Lillah together all the past time after marriage and Masha Allah we have one son of age 7 months.
I just fear in case I go for studies abroad and am not able to be with her for at least 2 years , what would be the effects on our relation?
I would do try my best to be with her for some times(times I would be getting out of studies/work etc).
Hope GS Members come up with mORE practiCAL examples.
i dont think you should leave her...you should take her with you she will learn to live on whatever little you are able to provide her with but living without hubby for tow years is awful ive been living without mine for 6 months now (because of immigration issues) and m total mess plzz dont do this to her its not worth it ....my father got married before leaving for germany to do his masters and then to japan to do his doctorate...my mom went with him both places and survived on his scholarship/loan money...even though they had twins in germany and one more son in japan....for the duration of the time they were living in germany my mom and dad survived only on bread and butter..they ate nothing else didnt go out anywhere except for walks and didn't shop...they gave the babies proper food n clothes but for themselves they kept to minimum...same in japan...so im sure ur wife will be cooperative n try to make do with however much you give her but dont leave her for 2 yrs