Re: How much control do we have over kismet?
Inspi: Strive your best with good intention and wisdom.
Re: How much control do we have over kismet?
For example there is a rishta that you realllllllllllllllllllly like - if its not in your kismet it won't happen no matter what you do?
Or for example there is a good rishta and despite many bumps and issues or misunderstandings along the way it still happens?
I like to believe whatever is in my kismet will happen no matter what? But then again we have to take an active role in our own lives to make something happen....
SO where does the balance lie?
your question is very complex, but perhaps the answer is very simple - "no one could ever konw"
Re: How much control do we have over kismet?
Sorry to break your bubbles folks....but the reality is that there is no such thing as kismet. These are actually part of tales that elders feed to each generation to keep them under "Control"....the rationale is that if you drill into people the thought that "everything that happens is because it is pre ordained" you keep the young minds from thinking for themselves and reduce the possibility of them thinking or straying...there is no such thing as kismet it is all made up....there is however other things which i call "Ittefaq" "Chance" and "Luck" dont confuse these with kismet...
Re: How much control do we have over kismet?
I dont believe in luck 