Re: How may kids you want to have?
Well, wants and needs do change over time, and if someone decides they dont want kids now but do want htem later, that doesn’t necessarily mean that person is flaky and unable to stick to a decision…
That being said, it’s a decision that’s between you and your husband. You know your situation, your abilities, and values the best, and will be able to handle all the criticism that comes your way.
Btw, do you get criticized a lot? What do you do when desi aunties (here n in pak) ask you abt kids (coz they always do!) Fortunately all the imp ppl are standing behind whatever decision i make but its still funny to hear desi aunties go “parhai choro, jaldi se BETA paida karo” …
OMG…i think yeh her newlywed kee kahani hai…aunties tell me this allllll the time…they are like parhai tou hoti rehey gee pehlay “khushkhabri” tou suna do…:halo: