Re: How many times can you say no?
He’s **much **younger, hasn’t done any further education, they don’t have much in common, her parents haven’t allowed her to speak to him/get to know him (I think I read that somewhere) etc. she just doesn’t want to..
Agree.. PO, sometimes u seem very assertive and determined but other times as tho u might go along with it even tho u don’t want to.. You need to really dig your heels in if this is really what you don’t want, ignore all the emotional blackmail, just block it out completely.. Try and spend as much time outside the house as possible or doing things to keep yourself busy (even if you’re not working it doesn’t matter, just anything to keep your mind off this stuff so you’re not sitting there and your family will have less chance to ‘corner’ you and try and wear you down)..
Btw u said the other day your dad suddenly said you weren’t allowed to wear english clothes anymore and u said you were going to do that regardless and go out in your ‘normal’ clothes the next day, what happened about that in the end?