Re: how many of you chatted freely and behaved married to your fiance/fiancees?
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If you look at it from religious stance, then it’s better to get the nikkah done prior to behaving “married.” If you have not had your nikkah, stay within your physical boundaries but continue to get to know each others’ personalities.
well said RV, my dad usually says “Mangani ki koi sharia haisiyat nai”.
i totally disagree with couples who act married…roaming around freely, shopping flat/house hunting together and spending all day together…wait till you are married or better still get your Nikkah done
a lot of misunderstandings and misconceptions occur at this point, as a lot of girls/boys put on a front and do not reflect their true character…i have seen a friends marriage fall apart for this reason, they communicated on the phone for 5 years and met a handful of times…they both portrayed a totally different image of themselves and their families, once they were married, they realised that they had both been putting on a false front, within 3 months they were divorced.
I am sure you will be fine…your hubby will love you to bits and will love to hear you talking all day long…btw a good idea for a birthday present (as per a previous thread) would be earplugs…