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agree SACRIFICE is the word 
just be happy with your kids Insha Allah they will bring you a lot of khushiyan.
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:) Ameeen...
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Sum'a Ameen
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Be strong and trust in ALLAH.
May ALLAH help you and give 'Hidayat' to your husband.
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sigh
Meena, I feel like giving you a hug, I see so much of my cousin in you, who's been through exactly what you are going through. But I pray that you don't meet her fate and finds love and peace with your husband. You know what if you say that to my aunt that I'm only enduring unhappy marriage because of my kids, she'll snap at you and say "auladd ke liye itni takleefai jhail rahi ho, kya gurantee he ke kal ko yeh ulaad tumhari bane gi'?. You know what I mean, don't waste life. Stand up for yourself and you'll eventually find a reason to live for yourself. I mean how about getting a job, joining some art classes/clubs/training sessions etc? Btw, how old are your kids? Would you be able to leave them with their father and go on a long holiday? And if you don't mind me asking, how old is your husband, and whats the age gap between you two (you don't have to answer it if you think its too personal)
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Jolie Guarantee tu kisi cheez ki nahin zindagi ki bhi nahin..........mera husband ka age diff 10 yrs ......or my kids r my jaan :) i know koi guarantee nahin but kam se kam mera zameer tu sukon mein hoga ......meray bachay agar merey na huay tu gila nahin is zindagi main kub koi apna hota hai........i will start sum job but my daughter is just 3 plus cant leave her alone...