Chavy
June 1, 2010, 2:25pm
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nadz123:
now the diff i see with pakistani hubbies…is that my husband anyway, is the opposite of me…i am the typcial british brat, he is a stabilising effect…everytime i throw a tantrum, or get all moody, or anything else , he just sits there and looks at me…and then he will say acha aur kuch kehna hai, bakwaas khatam, chalo ao chai peeyo..or something…he will say it with such warmth, i forget im angry.
now, had this been a guy from here, ( careful no generalising, but from what ive known and seen)he wouldve argued back, told me to f** off, or shut up or bascially retaliated…and it woudlve got worse.
i now realise, any issue with me or hubby,is usually from me
i used the u want my passport thingy before he proposed( when we argued alot and mostly due to me, and i was sort of joking, however, not only did this hurt his feelings, he refused to marry me then, and he took my passport ( i had shoved it at him) and spat on it. and said this is not whats going to get me or anyone else into jannat, if god wanted jannatis to havbe british citizenship, im sure there are other ways of getting it, and not marrying a stuckup spoilt brat like you, and if jannat is full of people like you with their pretentious attitude and stuckup snobbery then id rather go to hell..
yeh that told me.
before someone asks why we married, i forced him.lol. i felt so bad, and he didnt talk to me for ages after, i had to make it up to him badly…apologised like hell, took 6 months..phewwwww
So those who are raised and brought up in the UK/US, have no good qualities, bring nothing to the table, we are not marriage material, so they are marrying us for our passports then.
Thanks for clearing up the confusion Nadz.