at some point in our lives we realize that we have many, good friends. ..old replace new, distances make us far apart and so we form new fiends. but, then we realize that our friends’ based or friends-focused engagements are becoming overwhelming.
how do we manage these many friends.
limit for having friends is none, ideally. the more the better in spirit and in time of need - theirs and ours.
but for practicality sake, fast and closest friends, should be countable , let’s say: less than 10.
discuss?
please see, that friends - here mean only friends - male or female does not matter, but not significant other or spouse - just in the interest of making the precise point of the thread.
I have exactly 16 pal-phriends (currently). Yes, I counted.
You see, there’s a difference between PALS and PAL-PHREINDS. If I call you “pal” that means I like you no matter what. But only a select number of these “pals” I will refer to as “pal-phreinds”. They are in my posse clan.
oh and the third level of palship in Phatima1’s book is called “SUPER DOOPER PAL PHRIENDS”…that’s pretty much the greatest level of palship ever…i say it jabhi laad aata hai
sumties the pple u least expect come to ur aid.. and then u have those that would do ne thing for you.. i can count on one hand how many of thiose friends i have... one is an old friend and the others are newer more recent, but i would do ne thing for them...& they for me.. one of them i hav hurt recently and even though apology has been accepted there is still gonna be time till we are friends agan properly...