How low (or high) will you go?

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Re: How low (or high) will you go?

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Pfffft! I went on a few dates with older women. One was 20 years older than me. Although she did have me fooled; didn’t look like she’d turned over 30 to me.

Anyway, that’s not the point of my post. I wanted to say that on the flip side, you’ll also find South Asian girls who aren’t into older men. Well, only until they aren’t having luck getting hitched up and suddenly age is but a number to them. I’m not knocking them but this happens too.

I personally don’t think a big difference is ages should matter as long as you can relate on a more basic level, say communication, chemisty, sexual attraction (Oh oh, I said the S word!) and so on…

It is what it is.

Yawr, you’re atypical to date women 20 years your senior, but you already knew that. (Would you have made the marry with her though?) To be sure, I wasn’t ‘knocking’ anyone either, it is what it is, as you said. (Here’s to hoping not everything I say gets interpreted as a gender war of one-upmanship). As a society, and this cuts across cultures, a younger woman with an older man is more palatable than vice versa. Ideally age shouldn’t matter, yes, just like a lot of things shouldn’t. Interestingly, when I said older women, I actually meant as little as a 1-3 yr gap. Seems to be an issue from what I’ve observed, unless it’s a lowe marriage. In which case as @khattichic said, kya karega Qazi. And kya karegi Mummy. Daddy seems to be irrelevant in all this.

ps. Haww haii. He said saakshhual attraction. Peeto! Maaro!