How Long Would it Take....

[Muzna]

Re: How Long Would it Take…

@queer

there is one. when it comes to situations like these that are incredibly painful on those that are going through it in reality. it is called basic decency. you wouldn’t walk up to a divorcee and go, o hai rehana baji i am baffled at how one couldn’t stay married if they tried hard enough. same “rule” applies here.

and how do you know that I am not or have not been through the same process…?
again…I am not expecting all to participate here…there is nothing forcing someone to come in here and reply.
those that are contributing, save for yourself, seem to understand what I am getting at.
thanks for your feedback nonetheless.

@queer

it is funny how you have all these corner cases ready, but not one of a step-child who was mistreated, or an adopted child that had to be “returned” because of inability to adjust with the new family.

you are more than welcome to share any cases that you wish to…I’m not stopping anyone.
I simply don’t have such an example; fortunately.
besides…if I did present one someone could come along and be just as dismissive as you have been so truly that proves nothing.

the objective here is to understand someone else’s point of view…why they are not considering adoption…and what is motivating them…

@queer

and stop deleting my posts now. 2 in the last 5 mins. such pettiness…

I haven’t deleted any of your posts in this thread.
And if you can prove the relevance of your posts in the other thread, other than futile attempts to derail serious discussion, then I will restore them there.