How long after marriage should a couple have a kid.
So many couples have their 1st kid within the 1st year of marriage, what do u say about this and when should the 1st kid be born in your opinion?
very relative concept.. all depends!
depends on the age of the couple too you know. ive read and heard somewhere about the age of the woman being a factor in healthy pregnancy as well.
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So many couples have their 1st kid within the 1st year of marriage, what do u say about this
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That's because they don't use protection on the first night, I guess. I've seen so many marriages where the baby pops out about 9 months after the wedding....
I've seen so many marriages where the baby pops out about 9 months after the wedding....
hahahaha u are really are a mad scientist, u and ure theories!! heheh the baby pops out. LOL
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blushing_vision, relax man…you don’t need to open a new thread every 30 minutes !
I say wait atleast 2 years.
9 months and one day maximum :p
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*Originally posted by armughal: *
9 months and one day maximum :p
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LOL! Army you'll make such a strict ol papa jee...may your kids me wild and rebellious..j/k :D
Some poeple has theire first child after 1 year
And someone has childerens after 2 or 3 years or more.
But i also thinks it's depends.
Some womens don't get pregnant like this they
have to wait longer woh phir Allah ke marzi hai.
I see in Pakistan is more pressure from your parent in laws.
They inspecting you have youre first child after
1 year or sooner warna log kya kehen gain .
Nilu (anila)
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
1 year or sooner warna log kya kehen gain .
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Hi, 2 serious questions....
when you say "log kya kaheinge", log exactly kya kehte hain?
(Hai rabba! This couple has sex for recreation and not procreation! Tauba Tauba!)?Why do ppl want to have children at all? (New thread for this?)
Chd
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*Originally posted by chandigarh: *
Hi, 2 serious questions....
when you say "log kya kaheinge", log exactly kya kehte hain?
(Hai rabba! This couple has sex for recreation and not procreation! Tauba Tauba!)?Why do ppl want to have children at all? (New thread for this?)
Chd
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Why new threat about this topic?
And what do you mean by why do pple want to have
childeren at all.
You don't want kids later?
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Why new threat about this topic?
And what do you mean by why do pple want to have
childeren at all.
You don't want kids later?
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I am serious about this topic.
Forget what I want (or dont).
Why would one want kids at all? (now or later or whenever)
Difficult topic, I know. If possible answers unnerve you, please dont bother thinking about/answering the question.
thanks,
Chd
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*Originally posted by chandigarh: *
Hi, 2 serious questions....
when you say "log kya kaheinge", log exactly kya kehte hain?
(Hai rabba! This couple has sex for recreation and not procreation! Tauba Tauba!)?Why do ppl want to have children at all? (New thread for this?)
Chd
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1) People say all sorts of negative things about the couple. Some wonder if the woman is even "capable" of giving birth, others are always asking "koi khush khabri mili??"(meaning to ask: is she expecting?) to the couple and their families. It gets really irritating especially for the couple. Another fact is family planning isn't viewed as a good thing in our culture. It used to be taboo but things are slowly changing in our society and people are becoming more practical and openminded about these things.
2) First you tell me why would ppl NOT wanna have children at all? I'll answer your question after you answer mine.
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*Originally posted by CurruptAngel: *
1) People say all sorts of negative things about the couple. Some wonder if the woman is even "capable" of giving birth, others are always asking "koi khush khabri mili??"(meaning to ask: is she expecting?) to the couple and their families. It gets really irritating especially for the couple. Another fact is family planning isn't viewed as a good thing in our culture. It used to be taboo but things are slowly changing in our society and people are becoming more practical and openminded about these things.
2) First you tell me why would ppl NOT wanna have children at all? I'll answer your question after you answer mine.
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Hi Corrupt Angel.
You're right it is very irritating if pplz ask you again and again
koi khush khabri hai? And also thinking maybe the women
don't can give birth or something.
They never say to a men always the women.
Uhmm and about pratical and openminded there are not
so many pplz they are pratical about that in Pakistan.
Nilu. (Anila)
Re: How long should after marriage should a couple have kids?
Long enough but not too long 
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How long after marriage should a couple have a kid.
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If they are stable then... 9 months....
Well, they don’t have guts to say these things to men coz men don’t take crap but they know women will be polite and she can’t be straight forward so they always bother them. I hate those people. Agar shadi k baad mujhse kisi nay aisi bakwas kahi to main to achi khaasi suna doongi. 
Hahahahah achaaa… haan mein bhi soch rehi hoon
agar mein Pk jaongi our kisi ne aise kuch kahaan
then i will say something about it.
Nilu.
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If they are stable then... 9 months....
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9 months is very jaldi yaar.
Pehle miyaan biwi ko enjoy karne chaye
jaise go on holidays somewhere ect.
But that's my vieuw.
Nilu..