How long does it take you to..

‘feel free’ with someone? How much of a ‘private’ person are you?

See, a serious topic from me. I should be applauded.

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:)

umm not very long...I'm very outgoing.

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Depends on the other person... if the other person makes it comfortable for me, I can be open soon... but of course, I am an open book to my childhood friends etc... so time does matter to me to become fully free with someone...

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It depends on who it is. Some of my acquaintances are people no one should EVER open up to - unless they are already friends. But then I know some other people who are normal and I don't mind openign up to them. But, I wouldn't be telling them my deepest embarrassments/regrets - or maybe I would without it seeming like a huge deal.

I have become more open with myself, over time.

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im quite a bubbly person but it does take me a while to feel 'free' with people...with family its an instant thing....with friends and extended family its not instant...something iv hd to work up..other people..im friendly to them but it doesnt mean i am free!

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Being happy, bubbly and friendly is different from being close and personal with them.

If you mean the former...not too long...maybe a few minutes.

If you mean the latter...a LONG time.

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im not very open sadly...

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As long as it takes me to realize they would understand me. Either that or they seem like the type of person I would want in my life.

In reality, I can be free with almost anyone...I can have a laugh and take a joke. I then have a handful of people who would know me more personally, but there are always some things that nobody knows. I like to keep it like that. Everybody is a 'friend' unless they give me a reason not to.

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Depends on who the other person is, some ppl I take a long long time, and some I dnt take even a week.

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ahhhhhhh if someone doesnt annoy me or get on my nerves i am frandly
other times i just hate people so i am only talking "je je"
and also when i am a totally new environment it takes me a while to be normal.

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long time. depends how comfortable the person makes me too. it's all about the sincerity and vibes.

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^

do you get good vibes from me behbeh?

It can take potentially years for me to open up to people. Trust no one, that's what James Bond says.

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if its a beautiful babe, toh foran free ho jana chahiye.
otherwise take your time

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used to take a long time to me. Not anymore.

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there is no such thing as how long it takes one to open up with someone

it varies from people to people generally

it depends on the parties involved and how quickly they can click on things

nomesayin?

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holy shizzlestix