How long did it take?

Re: How long did it take?

I am not talking about being quiet after seeing the pic. Its when they see and like the pic and then come over to visit and then again like the girl, her family and everything and even invite the girl’s family over by asking them that the proposal is ok with them and the girl’s side should give their reply to arrange the next meeting, and then they back out when the girl’s family call them to say say by making lame excuses (istikhara being the common excuse made by them).