How long do you wait before you decide its time for your silent “buddy” to be deleted?
I have around six people (out of 20) that havent sent me a message or even appeared online in a year or so. My guess is that they either have deleted me off their list, no longer use MSN, are always on when I am not on, have blocked me, or maybe are just too busy with life to spend more than a few minutes a day on it.
So the question is, how long do you wait before you delete these buddies?
What’s the right way to go about it? Should I email all of them and ask whats going on or should I just delete them?
Several of the people on my list I talk to once in a blue moon, but I keep them as buddies cause well, sometimes once in a bluemoon is the best someone can do or you just have that type of relationship with em.
It’s not those ones I am concerned about, its the ones that have been “silent” for a year or more now.
There are very very few people I chat to regularly cause I myself am super busy, so I dun blame da silent ones. Just wanna clear up my list a little.
JB, how long do you normally wait to send someone an email?
The thing is, I am wondering if they havent come on MSN and havent contacted me either then maybe they wont want to receive an email from me. Is that possible? Like I dont want people to feel obligated to write me back and be like, "Ugh, she emailed me, now I HAVE to respond." You know what I mean?
