How long after giving birth did you try again for another baby???

[SadiKhan]

Re: How long after giving birth did you try again for another baby???

@Jolie

Trust me do give yourself time, if you can. When I used to work in a hospital as a so called ‘assistant’ receptionist, on daily basis I used to come across heavily pregnant women looking as if they’re on a verge of having an emotional break down as they had such a hard time dealing with their one and hlaf and two year olds. They may have their reasons but by just looking at those women I could tell that neither they are ready for second child, nor their child needs a sibling, (in fact most really young kids find it hard to see a new baby taking their place) at such age the kid just needs is your full attention, he needs to be picked up, he needs you running after him and doing all sorts of things that requires energy.

I know what you mean. Alhamdulillah my family has been really supportive. My mum comes every now and then stays for a few months with us and while she has a nice time with her grand child I get myself recharged..
I’m my parents only child so maybe in that sense my parents are always available to me.. even though I try not to depend on them much.. but its their love for their grandchild that they are always prepared.. sometimes my mum does get angry.. and she doesn’t want me to have another one yet.. she thinks its not fair towards my son.. so i think im still not ready thats why i am not pregnant yet.. but one thing for sure.. I want to get pregnant when my son is potty trained.. Im going to start that in a month or two..