Re: how lasting is heartlessness (bey-dili aur pathr-dili)
what is it?
behavioral intention history of failures error in judgement some personal complex double standards dishonest nature inability to recognize an honest response personal confusion and weakness
also, what if, someone wants to know where the loss was acumulated, and why it was percolated, i you will, into some substance that blocks out all honesty and makes one forget all things that were shared?
and if someone is hurting for the hurt of the person who left and only this person knows about it, how do you make peace with the belief that the person who walked away, was bad and does not deserve a second chance that you are probably okay in giving?
how do you make that person know that there was no need for a persistence in a positive prompt, to turn into aversion?
You are mentioning a very deep and far reaching kind of hurt, your experiences are still with you, time and sharing will heal Insha Allah
No one means to be bad, it happens in life , some wrong choices for some wrong reasons and hasty decisions some wrong words it all adds up, things go out of control.
They say you need to "Let It Be" and not dwell on it; and sound like you are repeating yourself but completely unaware of what is happening.
We all tend to be that way at times some more than others.