How is ur first marriage experience ?

This thread is just for the married ppl ? Would u lik to share ur first marriage experience ? whatever..Either good or Bad ? would u lik to go for another if u had som bad experiences ? What i know is marriage is just an agreement where both persons(m/f) hav to compromise somthing to mak it more sweeet and everlasting. but who is enjoyong more comforts in this ? Lov marriage is more stronger than arranged ? pros and con of L&A marriage
waiting for ur comments.
suggestion and advises for the young generation how to improve
this realtion ?

Re: How is ur first marriage experience ?

i think u meant:

This thread is just for the married ppl. Would u like to share ur first marriage experience ? Whatever..either good or bad ? would u like to go for another? **
**What i know is marriage is just an agreement where both people(m/f) have to compromise something to make it more sweet and everlasting! **B
ut who is enjoying more comforts in this? Love marriage is more stronger than arranged 1? **
waiting for ur comments.
suggestion and advice for the young generation on how to improve this relation........

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inzi rocks god bless you.

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meant what ?

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how com ? inzi rocks god bless you..

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decent fellow inzi rocks fixed your post a bit :)

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inzi ap cotee see hoo magar bhoot taz hoo

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Not fair at all.
Where do you place people having BF/GF. They also have kids.
And where do you place people who are living under common law.
I can speak in this thread as I have 5 girlfriends.....

But then other will start pushing the mods and admin to ban me ......

Thats not fair at all..........

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The title of the thread suggests that you are addressing those who have more than one marriage and want to know about their first marriage experience, right?

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this thread doesnt fit in the religion section at all.....

it'll look better in Life 1

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^ heccckkkyyy no…in Life 1 you are only allowed to have one wife :grumpy:

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I am married, and very happy. my wife was my girlfriend for 8 years (unfortunately not allowed in Islam) but we had good time. I have the person who really suits me and my lifestyle. so I have no intentions of getting married again. (one is expensive enough haha).

my marriage to the person i loved is a wonderful experience, of course there are ups and downs but that is the whole fun to figure out what needs to be done to sort out the problems. we share we care and basically have fun.

the only thing which is missing in my wife is the love of automobiles and gadgets. (she doesnt know what she is missing).

anyway thats my story.

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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,.............DF u told me 2 reply 2 ur threads so i modified that 4 u seeing as i am not married there wasn't much else i cud say as it was only '4 married ppl'!!!!

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Well i was 22 my wife was a 18 year old American Gori when we got married. First 3 years were fantastic but then she made some mistakes and out of anger of youth i made some bad dicisions instead of working out things.We ended up seprating but the messege is there are ups and downs in every relationship cuz those ups and downs give a flavour to the old boring married life. So dont make wrong decisions in those ups and downs which are going to make a regretful impression for the rest of your life. Just enjoy those ups n downs Cuz no body knows your partner better than you and vise versa.
My marriage was a wonderful experience but no I'M NOT GETTING MARRIED AGIAN. i dono y but i won't.

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hmm I am married.. and i was married almost 4 years ago... on the 27th of June it will be 4 years... congarts to me ... anywayz.. unlike some.. my marriage sucked in the begining.. it was worst than anything i have gotten into inmy whole entire life.. ok .... but after almost 3 years of banging my head to wifes, i think i have finally gotten it right.. i think.. marriage is like a scale.. u have to have the right weight on either sides to be balanced.... for most part the weight was always on one side (and we wont go on whose side cuz thats a whole new argumement)... but after 3 years of being married.. i have learned a few things from her ..and she has learned EVERYTHING from me (lol)... we r most compatiable than ever....
The golden rule is.. the guy is always wrong.. so dont argue....
Call her before she does
Tell her it would have been great if she would have come with u on the trip with ur friends is she wasnt working
in short ... marriage is a mind game.. keep thinking.... and u will get it right one day!
To conclude.. yes i would want to be married to my wife for as long as i can be.... and if something breaks loose. i aint stupid to jump into a well again!

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Dear friend,
I am impressed with your truthful sentense. You admitted something rather than denying it. Your life is your life but I just wanted to acknowledge your straightforwardness.
You could have said Islam is wrong but you did not say that. And I like it.

All the best and wish you the best in marriage.

Wasalaam

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i didnt expect too many replies
I know mostly ppl shy and avoid to share there marriage life
there are mistakes ...actually i m new ....i m not experienced .....
still i hav to read alot criticism from GS mem
There are few who encourage .................
still i think there is a long way to go .............LETs hop for the best