Re: How is the girl suppose to be in desi culture during
If your aunties run and complain to your mom…so what? You’re a grown up who’s about to become a man’s wife right? Let your mom deal with the aunties. The only person you need to concerned about is your husband. You should talk to your fiance and see what his expectations are of you on the wedding day.
Your wedding days (all the festivities) should be happy occassion for you. Relax and be yourself. If you’re comfortable just sitting there and looking at your lap then do that. If you want to look up and smile and talk to people (including your husband) then do that.
If you look through bridal pics on this forum, you’ll find plenty of pics where the bride looks miserable…and I never understand why(unless they really are miserable that they’re getting married to that guy!). Soo…assuming you’re happy about this marriage…relax and enjoy and have fun! 