Everyone says think about the child…no one mentioned the mother
Think about yourself as well. Will you be able to live in this ???
What upbringing will a child have if the mother is going crazy with stress and parents are fighting. Staying together only for the child is not always the right option but, here you have to decide if you can do it.
As for the person who keeps grudges…it only gets worse…things keep on piling over the previous ones & it never ends…one gets exhausted fighting over the same issues again & again…& its simply not fair to the one who is sorry for them & is trying to move on
Divorce is a very big thing & you are the one who will bear it ( god forbid if it happens) so dont rush & take time to think … At one side life is difficult, at other its more difficult, you have to choose which is which.