How important is your social circle to you....

[kakee]

Re: How important is your social circle to you…

@Spiral

Well the thing is my husband thinks his sister is right too. Well in his world, she is always right. I’ve already been criticized for not liking movies, watching tv, music and now the family must really think that I am depressed.. lol. I do like to go out, travel, read, spend time with my family … so idk..

Well I don’t think you’re depressed. He has to understand that you don’t have to be a carbon copy of everybody else. You are you and just because everybody else likes to go out and party doesn’t mean you have to too.
You know a lot of people don’t like spending time with their family or traveling they find it weird and unimportant.
Reading well people who read think people who don’t read are stupid, people who don’t read think people who read stay in doors all day.

So the question is
should you really judge yourself on what other people think? Should you really doubt your mental state just because your husband and SIL have that particular view?

I find it stupid that people just throw the word depression so carelessly because people start thinking “maybe I am depressed?” when they aren’t. Everybody shouldn’t be the same because if they were the world would be really dull.