How important is language in an ARRANGED marriage?

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Re: How important is language in an ARRANGED marriage?

@inspiron

15 isn’t that old its enough to pick up good enough.

**I have rishta of someone who is very interested but he has only been in the US for 7 years and did all uni etc from Karachi. **

My previous baat pakki was with someone similar, but we had real issues with communication he didn’t understand my sarcastic english I didnt understand his teasing urdu…

I feel like saying no to this rishta just based on the fact that his urdu will be way stronger than mine and my english way stronger than his…

I don’t see how conversing in English can be an issue with someone living in the US for 7 years. People pick up completely foreign language in 7 years and in Pakistan kids starting learning english from primary school age.
My friend got married and moved to France some 10 years ago. She is fluent in French now and have no trouble communicating.
In your case if you get married to a Pakistani guy then you will have not one but two languages in common.