How important is it to have a strong personality?

throughout life, we evolve in our persons,
but around 30 years of age, we have what is called crystallization of personality. i.e. our habits & traits become our signature identity marks - by which others know us. they know that we are introvert or extrovert, type A or type B, stable or instable, honest or dishonest & so on and so forth.
such people remain persistent, want a stability and harmony around them & unfair change does not sit well with the,
they either stay put and deal with the onslaught or they move away.
they are also able to mobilize others who might have the tendency towards becoming stronger people.
strong personalities are tireless, bending-backwards to abide by logical rules of an understood right-thing to-do’, kind of people, who are not benign when it comes to taking a stand.
in arguments and in obtaining a desired end result, they do not waver even if it means severing some close friends at times, to keep things equal.
but, a strong personality will stretch to its limits of patience and tolerance to give the benefit of care & do not unnecessarily break anyone’s back.
thus, there is a trickle effect of strong people.
in the face of hard times, strong personalities restrain their emotions - anger, fear esp. & mind the store with great tenacity.

so, are you a strong personality??

&, on average, do you run into people around yourself, in your life, your circle of friends, colleagues, class fellows, families, and neighborhoods, who bear strong personalities or people have become more flexible, fluid and adjusting to the changing circumstance? do they remain themselves or breach their convictions from time to time, to get by and get around a tricky situation??
]if so, how does your perception of such people is changed?

chime in!

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

ive never ever met a person with a strong personality if it is what you say it is!!!

and im not 30 yet :snooty:

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

very much .........

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

**Self Esteem issues

There are some girls who dont understand the definition
So Im a help a few of yall out just try and pay attention

First thing you got to realize in our lesson to day
Is that you are beautiful despite what ANYBODY say
Dont stress ya self cuz he dont like ya feet
Just remind ya self of your beauty

and that there are more fish in the sea

Second never love a man more than you love yourself
Becuz thats like sending your self esteem

on the expressline to hell
That means when he tells you your ugly

your gonna believe him

and when he beats you for talkin ****

you wont be able to leave him

Third despite your problems always see the good
If you cant see it then you think others should!?

Self esteem is about self

Don't put ya self down
If you want to be a queen
wear your crown from now

So look in the mirror and remember to smile today
Remember you are ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL
no matter what anybody say!!! **

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

important.....its wat makes u

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Psycoooooooo

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

this is awesome.

thanks for sharing,

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

in that case .. yes

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you can have a strong personality and be adpatbale and flexible as well.

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

that is a tough call, though, no?

how so?

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not at all, lets not confuse a strong personality with being bullheaded. Having a srong personality does not mean that the person is rigid and stuck in his ways. People ue the terms as substitutes too casually.

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

I define strong personality = controlled emotions + flexibility & adaptability + strong believes + awareness of surroundings + courage to lead + courage to follow.

Check out our prophet's life, you'll get the answer

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

hey These were MY lines.. thats what I was wondering that what being rigid or emotionally unbalanced has to do with a strong personality!

Re: How important is it to have a strong personality?

my defiinition of strong personality = a midget picking up hunnies wayyy above his league..

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ya!

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:)

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cool breeze and zombie, i guess we think alike on this topic :)

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:)

thats right. Being bull-headed and stubborn means, one has a very weak personality. These are 2 opposite things.