to get married in life?
I know that’s a very weird question to be asked 
I got a few proposals,but I don’t know why, i didn’t seem to like any of them for marriage.The person whom i actually would want to get married with,the things aren’t working out for us,as our parents disappove.I can move on in life,but i don’t seem to like any guys about whom i could think i can spend the rest of my life with.
So is it okay if a girl chooses to stay unmarried in her whole life?How do people see it?
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No clue for a woman. But being lonely or alone all your life would suck ass. You would go insane. There is nothing more depressing that coming home to am empty house after a long days work and having nobody to speak with, talk to, hang out with or just feel comfortable with.
Companionship not matter in what form is a necessary aspect of human existence. Marriage more so than friendship.
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Don't close yourself off to marriage. Keep your mind and options open. Marriage is wonderful. But the wrong marriage can destroy your life. So enter into it carefully, when you feel ready, and have found someone who will be a partner in life for you.
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Getting married is easy, staying in marriage is hard work but it has it's rewards. Just make sure your expecations are kept real before and after marriage.
Can someone live spinster for life? Sure, it is possible. Those are also very strong minded people and know what to expect and are ready for it.
Whatever you do, it won't be easy.
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Choosing solitary life will not be a wise decision. At later stages loneliness will drive you lunatic. There should be some big potential philosphy in islam's encouraging to have nikah with half imaan sawab accompanying it.
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I have known a small number of women who chose not to marry. Do they have regrets? I guess...but its about as many regrets as women who did marry. You could spend your entire life wondering about "what-ifs" yeah?
I think it doesnt make much difference. If you follow your heart and mind and make the choices that are right for you - nomatter what those choices might be - then you're on the path to happiness in the life that you've chosen for yourself. Its when you start making huge life decisions based on what others might think and what others would like you to do that you'll run into unhappiness.
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It depends on the woman.
Is she sensitive to what other people say? If she is, she would get married to please other people.
If she isnt, she should stay single until she finds a man who makes her want to be married.
Its as important as you want it to be. Some people are happy in solitude and find comfort in it. Some people need and crave companionship; these people cannot be single.
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I'm living a single life and it is not easy. Stop being fussy and pick someone soon. He isn't exactly what you want? No one will be so learn to compromise and settle.
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Heres my further take on the issue. I was in an unhappy marriage for a number of years. Finally, finally got up the nerve to divorce. I got an adorable apartment in uptown manhattan and was earning a really great salary, I was living a very comfortable life. If I had not known my now-hubby then I could very well have lived a full and happy life. My requirements were that IF I remarried, I'dwant a husband who could provide while I was a stay-home mom to the children. Did not/do not require fancy cars,house, vacations etc. Thats all I wanted if I were to go for the family route. If I could not have it that way then I didnt want it at all and I could have lived (pretty) happily ever after. Most things in life come with trade-offs and compromises. You just have to decide what you will compromise on and what you will not.
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I think most parents and girls themselves desire marriage and a stable family home. Some people call marriage 'just a piece of paper' but that legal protection makes a woman feel a little more secure about bearing children and becoming more dependent on hubby. Even the people that I have met who are complete loners have that longing for someone. And even if a couple does not want to have kids, i think it's nice to have the companionship of marriage. Earlier in life, I had a plan to go to medical school, graduate, and work as a doctor with doctors without borders as a single woman. I figured anyone could have more children, but my life would be different...i would be saving the lives of children who already exist. But talking with my four aunts, who are all unmarried and in their 50s, has made me value marriage more. They are all alone now, their father passed away, and they say they just want to get married now for company...they have career, education, money, etc....but their only wish in life is to have a companion...so it makes me think twice.
My advice is not to get married for the sake of marriage, but marry someone who you could imagine having a good relationship with through old age.
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And remember, it's not like you have to get married in your 20s. People do get married later. In some cases, it can be harder to find a partner, but if your 20s are not the right time for you, don't rush into it.
No clue for a woman. But being lonely or alone all your life would suck ass. You would go insane. There is nothing more depressing that coming home to am empty house after a long days work and having nobody to speak with, talk to, hang out with or just feel comfortable with.
Companionship not matter in what form is a necessary aspect of human existence. Marriage more so than friendship.
I completely agree with CM. I lived away from home for 5 years during my school and out of those 5 I lived alone for 2 years with no room mates and it was horrible. You definitely need someone around you to talk to you, its human nature
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Its hard for everyone (for boys and girls equally) and its against nature. Even animals form family/herds
At some point in time, It may seem attractive to live a life free of all responsibilities etc but life latter on if full of regrets and unfortunately its the thing that cant be done right later in the life.
If only reason of not marrying is usability to find a 100% match, then no one finds 100% match. Compromise should be the order of the day.....
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I am not sure how old you are but remember one thing, your social circle will start to diminish rapidly as you age and stay single. Married people like to socialize with married people. Your current friends won't be there for you in a few years and then the reality will hit home.
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I completely agree with CM. I lived away from home for 5 years during my school and out of those 5 I lived alone for 2 years with no room mates and it was horrible. You definitely need someone around you to talk to you, its human nature
Me too. I lived one year away from family and had no roommates. It was depressing as hell.
No one to ask you where you were. No one to ask you how your day was when you return back home. No one to answer to. It was terrible.
Independence is all good. But loneliness is death.
I would rather "depend" on a companion for emotional needs.