Xtron
March 1, 2013, 4:46pm
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Re: How important is financial security?
I beg to differ but I think that someone not earning as well as you doesn’t really mean that they don’t offer any financial security. Don’t you think there are times when people do need to compromise especially when it comes to accepting proposals? Of course I would never suggest a girl to go for someone who isn’t properly educated or doesn’t appear to have had a good up bringing but, there can be many suitable matches for you even if they aren’t at a better place than you in life. After all marriage is all about making it work together. I have had so many friends who kept waiting for better matches and in the end were rushed into marriage as their parents started freaking out. Life doesn’t offer us too many chances. We need to accept a lot of things and yet always struggle hard, hoping for the best. I don’t have any idea of the proposals Madz is getting but my sincere advice would be to really see if she thinks that a person has the caliber to progress in life and keep her happy. Education is the basic ground to judge this on. Getting to know a bit more helps us make the final decision.
Don’t know why…but i think i actually agree with you. For instance, if you see a potential in someone it works out. And there is a case in my own family..that she married to a guy who was not earning much. But Allah has given them so much barakah in their marriage. So good one.