how hard do you need to work for marriage

[Stardust09]

@nadz123

maybe its all the emotions im feeling with the pregnancy, i find myself crying now for no reason, well actually began when i asked my bro in law whose a dear friend, whether he would expect or insist his wife to wear duppatta, he said no, in fact all men i know dont do that. so it made me cry thinking i had to have the husband who does. its just getting me down. im not enjoying married life the way i thought id be…honeymoon period isnt even over yet and here i am…

are you seriously going to base the rest of your married life and its success on this one request from him?

You will face far more challenges in married life and I really don’t see how this request from him should depress you further.

Don’t focus on it. Instead, I would start asking him to change things about the way he dresses and see how he likes it (if it is such a BIG issue)