yeah, the husband is doing so much right now but it’s not like she’s not doing anything. she’s pregnant, going through a lot of physical and emotional changes, and she’s going to pop out a baby… i think the hubby would prefer doing the housework over what she’s going through.
nadz, it sounds like you have a really sweet and adoring husband. at least you acknowledge everything that he’s doing for you, so you’ll manage to control those mood swings and hormones. if he expects you to do hijab, you need to explain to him that hijab cannot be forced upon you. a husband cannot force his wife to do hijab or to take it off. likewise, a husband probably wouldn’t want to be forced by a wife to grow a beard or to shave it off. have an open mind, sit down with him, ask him why he wants you to cover your hair- let him give the religious/cultural/family reasons. consider it, but if you still don’t want to, then tell him that if you cover your hair because he wants you to, you won’t be doing it for the right reasons.